DAILY GOSPEL«Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.» John 6,68
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Saturday, 25 August 2007
The Daily Gospel
Friday, 24 August 2007
The Daily Gospel
DAILY GOSPEL«Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.» John 6,68 |
Wednesday, 22 August 2007
The Daily Gospel
DAILY GOSPEL«Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.» John 6,68
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Tuesday, 21 August 2007
The Daily Gospel
DAILY GOSPEL«Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.» John 6,68
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Monday, 20 August 2007
The Daily Gospel
DAILY GOSPEL«Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.» John 6,68
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Sunday, 19 August 2007
When you believe in God, but not church
Believing in God is never complete without belonging to a church. Church in this context should be understood as group of believer whose members care for each other. This could be a catholic church or any other church.
God Himself is a Community of Persons. To believe in God is to share in the life of God and this can only be realized when a believer belongs to a community who shares his belief. In other words, when we begin to understand God, we are moved towards building relationship and in doing so we tend to build a church.
This is similar to the concept that God is Love. Love cannot exist in one person alone. Love always presupposes 2 or more persons a community. Hence to believe in God but not church is just like believing in love but not loving anyone.
It should be noted however that there is a great difference between the Community of Three Divine Persons and the Church community. The former is bound by perfect Love while the latter is by not-perfect' love. Many of those who believe in God but not the church are people who expect to find a Perfect Love in a pilgrim church (hence not yet perfect church) which is hardly possible.
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Friday, 17 August 2007
Explaining the existence of God with the absence of physical evidence
God is a being outside the realm of space and time; hence it is pointless to prove God's existence by means of any physical evidence. Furthermore physical evidence is only a tool for proving something but the conviction whether it has indeed proven something lies on the individual Testimony of Consciousness.
Physical Evidence is Not Enough
As an illustration, take for example some tricks done by highly skilled magicians. As far as physical evidence is concern, they could prove that they can do something, which is contrary to some law of nature, for example defying gravity by making someone float in the air. However, no matter how convincing the physical evidences are, still there is something deep within you, which says, "I don't believe it." This something deep within us is the testimony of our consciousness. In similar manner, despite we do not have any physical evidence of God's existence; there is always this something deep within us that says God exists. We could not prove it physically but we are quite certain, we can feel it, based on our collective life experience that God exist.
Testimony of Our Consciousness
Co-incidences. We have lots of experiences in life where things just turned out good unexpectedly, just on the right time and place and when everything seemed to be lost. They are not really co-incidences, they are proof there is God.
I am healed. People experience miraculous healing, either in big or small scale. This unexplainable cure when experienced together with feeling of inner peace and joy is an experience of God.
My conscience. In every decision that you make specially when there are some elements of malicious intent involve, you can hear from deep within telling you not to do it. It is popularly known as conscience but actually it is God.
There is no God. When a person is adamantly denying the existence of God and he just could not help not to do so - it is because the testimony of his consciousness is telling him otherwise. Why is he so paranoid in proving that God does not exist rather than proving than proving that there is no life in other planets or anything worth proving? Why the existence of God. It is because he can feel it and he is still in the denial stage. Time will come when he would concede.
Thursday, 16 August 2007
Latest Press Release from British Gas
The Problem: There are some evidences of drastic climate change – typhoons and hurricanes are becoming relatively stronger, big blocks of ice-berg had been melting, etc.
Analysis: While we need CO2 and other green-house gasses to keep our planet habitable, it is always true that anything that is too much is bad. So far among the green-house gasses only CO2 had significantly changed in terms of air concentration hence it is very likely that there is a link between climate change and CO2. While this needs to be proven scientifically nonetheless by applying simple common sense anyone can conclude that too much amount of green-house gasses than what the earth requires will simply make it warmer.
Solution: Reduce CO2 emission. Collectively we can make a difference. We need to start now.
Why don’t we join British Gas in their campaign for a greener life-style
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BRITISH GAS LAUNCHES GREENEST ENERGY TARIFF 9 August 2007:
British Gas has announced it is launching two new green energy tariffs, Zero Carbon, which will be the greenest tariff available on the domestic market and Future Energy. British Gas has launched the tariffs, in response to the increasing demand for green energy products.
Householders signing up to the Zero Carbon tariff will:
• reduce their household energy carbon emissions to zero through Kyoto compliant offset schemes which will meet the new Defra requirements
• help fund a direct increase in investment in renewable energy generated in the UK
• contribute to the new British Gas green fund which will:
o invest in developing new renewable technologies such as wave power
o oversee a programme to help schools in the UK reduce their CO2 emissions.
Gearóid Lane, Managing Director British Gas New Energy said,”Our new tariff responds to consumer demand for truly green energy solutions. It is essential that customers have confidence in green energy tariffs and that their credibility is not damaged by tariffs that claim to be green but in reality do not deliver any incremental environmental benefits. Green tariffs are moving from niche to mainstream products and we’re leading the industry by offering a tariff that will do more for the environment than any other product currently available.”
Under the government’s Renewables Obligation (RO), electricity suppliers in the UK are already required to produce an increasing percentage of their electricity through methods such as wind farms which, unlike traditional power plants, produce zero carbon emissions. For 2007/2008 this figure is set at 7.9%.
In a recent report, the National Consumer Council (NCC) raised concerns that some energy suppliers are packaging electricity which is produced under the RO scheme as “green”, yet it delivers no additional environmental benefits. The NCC called on energy suppliers to take steps beyond their legal requirements and offer green energy tariffs that provide genuine additional environmental benefits, in particular CO2 emissions reduction.
British Gas worked with Global Action Plan and The Climate Group’s “We’re in this Together” campaign to develop Zero Carbon which goes further than any other green tariff in meeting these requirements offering consumers the only zero carbon option on the market.
The tariff carries a premium of £84 per year, reflecting the higher cost of producing energy through lower carbon emission schemes.
Virginia Graham, Chair of Global Action Plan, said, “The British Gas Zero Carbon tariff delivers on all three of the essential requirements of a green tariff which are: additionality, transparency and verifiability. As such it is a very welcome new offering in the market. Consumers signing up to the tariff can be confident that they are getting 12 per cent more renewable energy than they would otherwise have got. The carbon emissions from their electricity and gas will also be offset with emissions reductions from projects accredited by the United Nations.”
Zero Carbon is one of the first initiatives launched through the ‘We’re in this Together’ campaign, which was launched in April 07 as an alliance of some of the UK’s biggest brands who are all working to help their customers reduce their impact on the climate.
Dr Steve Howard, CEO of The Climate Group and founder of ‘We’re in this Together’ said, “We’re committed to offering people ways to make a real impact on climate change through Together.com. We’ve worked with British Gas to ensure that Zero Carbon is a genuine step forward in delivering more environmental benefits than any other tariff currently available.”
British Gas’s second green energy tariff, Future Energy, offers an alternative green electricity tariff at a premium of just £20 per year. Customers signing up to this tariff will contribute to a green fund which will provide solar panels and other renewable energy technologies to UK schools. Money from the fund will also be invested in development of future renewable technologies and sources.
To sign up customers can call British Gas on 0845 604 0055 or visit http://www.blogger.com/www.britishgas.co.uk
Do prayers work?
There are four types of prayer, namely adoration, contrition, thanks giving and supplication.
When we speak of prayer, generally we mean prayer of supplication. Does prayer work when we pray for something? Definitely yes but maybe not in the way you think it does.
When we pray for something we think as if God's answers prayers in the same manner when we answer someone who asks for a favor from us. As if in a sense we are trying to convince God or to make God acts on our behalf i.e God is like playing to be someone who wanted to be given importance who would only give our needs if we ask for it. Or God is a God who does not know our needs hence we need to remind him if what are they? No, God is simply none of those.
Even before we pray God knows our needs and He is very much willing to answer them.
The main difference between a person who pray and one who does not is that the former in the course of his praying finds the answer while the latter misses God's answer to his needs. In other words when we pray (for something) we tend to become more aware of God's way of communicating to us hence we find the answer. On the other hand if you don't pray you will never hear God's way of talking to you and consequently you miss his answers to your needs.
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Wednesday, 15 August 2007
Is Freedom Truly Free?
Every act comes from the activities of human will and intellect. The will' always wills the good. However the will judgment of the goodness of a thing depends upon the intellect. In other words if the intellect provides erroneous data i.e. telling the will that such and such is good where in fact it isn't, then the will wills it as good.
Let's take the act of smoking as an example. Before a person wills to smoke, his intellect will undergo a series of investigation whether it is good or bad. His criteria in judging the goodness of a thing or an act depends on his collective knowledge and conscience formation. After such deliberation it would pass its judgment to the intellect. Whatever the intellect findings the will takes it at its face value. If the intellects passed on the message to the will that it is good, then the will wills it and the person will smoke.
Hence an act is only truly free when a subjective good agrees with an objective good. In other words if the intellect discerns that a certain act is good and it is indeed good then it is true freedom. On the other hand if the intellect judges an objectively evil as good, then his action is still free i.e. directed towards good but it is of lesser degree of freedom because an objective evil was perceived as good subjectively.
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Run, Fatboy, Run
Hilarious, entertaining and a must see movie. Run Fat Boy Run teaser starring Simon Pegg, Dylan Moran and Thandie Newton is a film directed by David Schwimmer and written by Michael Ian Black.
This is a story about an overly lazy and stupid bloke who left his fiancé at the altar on their wedding. Ten years later he realised he wanted her back but she already belonged to someone else.
To win her back he trained to join a marathon. Why marathon? Did he win her back? Watch the film for the answers. Hilarious, entertaining and a must see movie.
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Why Abolish Death Penalty
1. It is an insult to God. God created men in his image and likeness.
A person no matter how evil he became due to collective factors viz. upbringing, parental (mis)guidance, environment, innate personality etc. still has the capacity to change for the better because God creations - wherein man is one of them are good, in fact man is the best among them. When a person is condemned to die because of a crime committed, it is just like telling God, "You created craps."
2. Money matters. Poor are always in the disadvantage.
The first person meted with death penalty in the Philippines was a poor fish vendor who had been exonerated after spending three years in the death row. Had he been rich, such would never happen to him.
3. It is murder.
It is intentional and premeditated killing of a person; therefore it is murder, a violation of the fifth commandment.
4. It is punishing the wrong party.
The people who suffered more are the relatives of the condemned criminal and members of the society who opposed it. There was one case wherein the victims of the crime committed (rape) were daughters of the accused. Few days before the execution, the daughters begged the then President Estrada to pardon their father but Estrada did not listen to them. A double black-eye to the children.
5. It is a reward rather than punishment.
No one knew what happened to the soul of the murdered' criminal. But most likely he would go directly to heaven. Why? {a} Inmates in the death row are being taken cared of spiritually by someone with spiritual authority, e.g. priest. By the time that his time comes, he could have repented already and therefore he would definitely go to heaven. (b) God is merciful and forgiving, He would certainly forgive a victim of an unjust killing i.e. death penalty.
Maybe it would be a good practice if the judge, congressmen, senators and the president who approved death penalty would take turn in acting as phlebotomists.
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Tuesday, 14 August 2007
Moral Issue of Abortion
My personal stance on this issue is that human life begins right away after conception.
Our life is best understood in terms of relationship, e.g. I am my mother's son, I am so and so friends etc. The deeper our connectedness or bonding with a person, the stronger our relationship is.
Now imagine a person closely related to you had passed away, how would you feel? For sure you would find it very painful as if something that is part of yourself has been taken away. But in contrast if someone totally unknown to you dies you would be significantly less affected. In fact some of us would not even be affected even a little bit.
The point being is that both persons who died in the above examples were human being. In other words, whether you are closely related to a person or not, he is always a human being and therefore his life should be preserved at all cost.
Another thing I would like to mention about (persons) relationship is that every relation has different degree. My relationship with my wife is much stronger than with an ordinary friend. And the strength of every relation could either get stronger or weaken.
Now with regards to the relationship between the mother and the unborn person, we could say that it is equal to zero at the beginning (though with a potential to become very strong in the future). This is so because there is not yet a significant relationship or bonding between the two persons.
A mother who wanted to abort her unborn child feels just like anyone's feeling when he or she heard about an unknown person death. The mother sense of loss would be much lesser than when losing a baby who died after being born. A child whom she had already cuddled, talked to and loved.
However with regards to killing a baby either one who is already born and one that is not yet born, there is no difference at all. Thus if general moral standard consider killing (intentionally) as murder, then the same thing applies to abortion.
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Monday, 13 August 2007
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Quality – the most important feature of your product or service. No one likes to pay for craps.
Affordability – price-wise your product must be able to compete with what are currently available in the market. Buyers would settle for a “less good” product when the price differential is significantly big.
Necessity – nice product, very affordable, but does anybody need it? No? Then forget about it.
Convenience – Too heavy? Too big? Too complicated? Too bulky? Too messy? The magic word now-a-days in the market world is “user-friendly”. It’s the X-factor.
Range of Application – The more, the better, the fast-seller and stays longer in the market.
Extras, Extras, Extras – some things that go with your products at no extra-cost. Sometimes this makes the difference. I know it looks odd but some people buy products because of the extra rather than being interested in the product itself.
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Emphasizing Mary's Purity
In today's (canonical) standard, if she was/is indeed physically virgin then her marriage to St Joseph can be dissolved on the ground of unconsummated marriage.
Were those brothers of Jesus mentioned in the Bible his real brothers or as currently taught were they only his cousins? Assuming that they were indeed Jesus brothers by consanguinity, then what is wrong with it. Isn't it that one of the purposes of marriage is to have children? Is sex between married couples wrong? If not, then being virgin while married at the same time is not really a virtue.
Whether Virgin Mary was indeed a virgin only she and God know. The problem with giving to much emphasis on Mary's virginity is that very few of the women of today can actually relate with her or make her as a role model. Furthermore sometime it misleads others by having a notion that sex is evil. Some would even link original sin to sexual intercourse.
I believe that Mary's PURITY should be given more importance rather than her virginity. Even if she had other children our Salvation would not be affected.
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Friday, 10 August 2007
Friday, 3 August 2007
Is there heaven and hell, or just heaven for everyone?
The point being is that, hell is not eternal damnation as commonly believed. God is love and His love is UNCONDITIONAL. All His actions are motivated by this unconditional love, hence when God decides that a soul should go to hell it is because God loves him so much.
The pre-Vatican view of hell as eternal damnation into everlasting fire is the more common understanding of it. This kind of concept of hell made a very backward kind of Christian. A person who has such kind of belief would say to himself: 'I will do good because I don't want to rot in hell; I will attend mass because I don't want to go to hell; I will honour my parents because if I don't God will punish me into everlasting fire in hell'. Notice that the motivation is always fear of hell and the intention is purely personal salvation. Indeed a very shallow kind of faith.
A mature Christian would say, I will do good because it is for the benefit of everyone, I will attend mass because I love to listen to the Word of God and I want to congregate with my fellow Christians, I will honour my parents because I love them and I want to let them feel how I appreciate the love they lavished to me specially when I was a baby. Note that the person motivation is purely love, hell does not even comes across his mind.
Following are two analogies that would prove that souls in hell are not being punished but rather loved.
1. Imagine yourself as very dirty, i.e. your smell is very bad and your appearance is that who haven't bathed for so long. Then you find yourself in the company of very clean people. Do you think you would be comfortable in their company? Of course you wouldn't. You would rather be in the company of others who smell and look like you.
2. Heaven is just like learning how to read. A person who devoted much time in learning how to read and having learned so would be very happy when someone would give him some very nice books as gifts. On the other hand a person who did not bother learning how to read would never appreciate gifts in form of books. In similar manner a very sinful person would never appreciate heaven.